Welcome to Kolya's Carrd!

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ᯓ★ Nikolai/Kai
ᯓ★ It/They/He
ᯓ★ MINOR (16)
ᯓ★ Autistic
ᯓ★ Taken (4/5/24)
ᯓ★ INFP-T

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(If we are friends, you NEED to read the above button. Still read it if we aren't, but it is VERY important that people I am friends with read it.)

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Before You Interact!

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꩜ I am an awkward person. I'm not good around new people, & I tend to try and stay near people I know. I struggle with understanding social cues a lot. I also struggle with understanding and regulating my own tone, both in voice and text. If you know how to use tone tags, please use them in situations that could easily be confusing. It will make conversations with me much easier, & will help stop misunderstandings.
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꩜ When I am comfortable and/or excited, I tend to get really loud. Feel free to tell me to quiet down. All I ask is you don't do it rudely. The same if I am talking a lot. I might cut you off. I apologize, just tell me and I will try to stop.
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꩜ I can be very physically affectionate with my friends. If you are not comfortable with it, tell me. However I'm not good at showing affection in other ways, so if I seem 'more affectionate' with other friends, it's simply that they are okay with physical touch. This doesn't mean I don't like you.
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꩜ I have tics, and I stim a lot. No, I am not faking. No, I do not do it all the time, the amount it happens really just depends. I cannot control them, trust me, if I could I wouldn't do them at all.
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꩜ I have fluctuating verbality. I might randomly stop talking, just give me time. There aren't always reasons, but it often happens when I'm over or under stimulated.
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꩜ I have autism. This affects my day-to-day life. I cannot handle certain noises, & when I'm over/under stimulated, this gets much worse. If I seem upset with you for no reason, I am probably just over/under stimulated, or I'm just not in the mood for you. Please do not take offense to this.
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꩜ There are only 3 people I am always okay with talking to, Daniel(my boyfriend), Zoro(my bestfriend) and Cassian(my online son). I don't know if this list will ever grow, and I hope it never shrinks. If you are not one of these 3, then don't expect me to constantly be around or talk to you. If you have problems with any of these 3, I have serious problems with you.
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꩜ I am a trans-man. I prefer the pronouns It/They/He. Call me whatever pronouns, but do not expect me to try and be friends with you if you always call me she/her and you don't even TRY to call me my preferred pronouns. Also, yes, I use It as a pronoun. You do not have to use it, but do know it is my most preferred one. If you know my birthname, do NOT call me it. I will NOT interact with you if you do. The ONLY people I don't get on for calling me it are my family.
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꩜ Finally, I use the block button. If you make me, or the people close to me uncomfortable, I will block you. On top of that, I have a boyfriend. If you get too flirty with me, or do ANYTHING that makes him uncomfortable, and you don't stop when asked, I WILL block you. Him and I will not be breaking up any time soon. If you get upset by people in happy, healthy, long-distance relationships, fuck off. We have been together almost 7 months, and are making plans to meet in-person in December.

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Do Not Interact.

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If you are anything on this list that is bolded, you will get a block if I see you interact with me. There are some things I can't look past/don't wanna deal with. Also, I owe NOONE my presence. If you make me uncomfortable, I WILL block you.

⊱ Proshippers
⊱ LGBTQPhobic (It's okay to not agree, it's not okay to be hateful to someone for something that doesn't harm you.)
⊱ Ppl who start drama for no reason (I don't need more drama in my life)
⊱ Incest, grape, or pedophillia enjoyers/encouragers.
⊱ Rarepair haters
⊱ Anti-furry
⊱ If you support Israel or Russia's governments.
⊱ Zoophiles (You're actually disgusting.)
⊱ Art Theives/AI "artists"
⊱ If you GENUINELY hate on people for no valid reason(ex:kids being kids, alternative ppl, ppl w/disabilities, ppl being furries, etc...).
⊱ I am 16. I'd rather people under 14 not befriend me. Same for people over 19. I'm not saying we can't interact, just don't expect us to become friends. If we do, we do. I'm not going to not be friends with someone because of their age(unless you are under 12. Do NOT interact with me if you are under 12).
⊱ If you don't like people who are in long-distance relationships, then leave me alone. Sorry not sorry.

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These are in no specific order! If you like these things, feel free to interact and talk about them with me! I like talking about things I enjoy.

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Appreciations!

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If you aren't on here, it doesn't mean I don't appreciate you. These are just specific people I want to specifically give appreciation for.

ZORO ✿ ILYSM! You're like a father to me and I genuinely don't know where I'd be without you. You've saved my life and I can't wait to meet you in person so I can give you the biggest hug ever. I can't believe we've been friends for like 7-8 years. It's insane that we met because I randomly invited you to a party on The Hive the day after Halloween, and now we are the best of friends.
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DANIEL ✿ I love you super big much! I'm really happy we are together and you help me feel so much better about myself. I hope we are together forever and I'm so glad we met. Even if we are many miles apart, I'll wait as long as I need to be able to see you in person. I think your so handsome and I love hearing your voice. Talking to you makes my day so much better. I absolutely love it when we just yap or silently chill together. Any moment with you is a good one.
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DAZAI ✿ ILY! I love talking to you, and we almost always have so much fun together. I love spending time with you. I'm super greatful to you for introducing me to Daniel and our group. ILY POOKAY!
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AZRA ✿ ILYSM! Oh em gee! We always have so much fun tgthr. I love our conversations and how they can be so fun and so deep at the same time. I love our jokes and I have so much fun with you.
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POPCATS ✿ ILY! OMG You're so fun and sweet. I love just saying hi to you because of the way we do it and the way you match my energy so fast. I LOVE playing games with you or even just yapping. You're so awesome!
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OFFSETS ✿ ILY! You're literally SO fun to play with. I end up laughing every time we are on games together. You brighten up rooms and games. I am super glad we are friends.
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AGENT ✿ Idk how we are just now becoming close friends. You're so fun to be around and you're so sweet. I LOVE yapping with you and I'm super greatful for you helping me with setting up and making sure my PCVR works well.
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VALK ✿ IDK HOW I NEVER HAD YOU HERE BEFORE!? ILYSM! You're litterally so awesome Valk. I know we haven't been talking as much, but I enjoy our time a lot. You are so funny and silly. You're like so important to me. You are such a sweet person, and you overall are just an enjoyable guy to be around. Feel free to message me anytime. Never feel like you're too much! ILY!
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DEGENERATE RATS GROUP ✿ I missed playing with y'all so much. I'm sorry I stopped playing with y'all for the bit I did, and I am so grateful y'all accepted me back in so quickly. You guys make any bad day so much better, and you all are so sweet and fun. I know I don't know a bunch of y'all since when I played it was just Death, Shadow, Pheonix, Ares, Koa, and I, but I'm hoping I can get to know y'all and play with you guys a bunch more.

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